Gayme Night

Gayme Night is a safe, inclusive, non-sexual, safe space for LGBTQIA+ & allies. Come hang out, make friends, and chill.

My name is Todd Kelly, I started Gayme Night because I strongly believe that more platonic spaces are desperately needed in our community! Coming out can be a horrible experience, but finding that there isn't really a 'community' to go to other than at the night clubs (and even those are not always inclusive) is a tragedy for our community.

The LGBTQIA+ community is my heart and it breaks when I see us not coming together! You are welcome here, we would love to have you, our arms are open.

Though called 'Gayme Night', it is mostly a socializing event where we also play video, board, card, and social games. We encourage everyone to come, bring their friends or a date, bring a game if they wish, and bring drinks/snacks to share if you can afford to.

We commonly play Smash Bros, Mario Kart, Cards Against, Jackbox Party Games, and many others. Occasionally I will hold a themed night like Retro Night, Trivia Night, Onsie Night, BBQ Night, etc. 

Please read the "What to Bring" and "Rules" sections below:

WHAT TO BRING

• THERE IS NO REQUIREMEMT FOR ENTRY
  You can just come and hang out, no payment or contribution is required. However, if you plan to drink, please read below.

• IF YOU CAN AFFORD TO, BRING SOMETHING TO SHARE
  I couldn't run Gayme Night without all of you bringing things to share! Thank you!

• CONTROLLERS, BOARD GAMES, CARD GAMES, ETC...
  We mostly play NIntendo Switch games, so if you have a controller you want to bring, feel free! It helps for sure! Also if you'd like to bring a board or card game to play, that sounds awesome! There is enough space for multiple activites here!

• IF YOU PLAN TO DRINK ALCOHOL, BRING ALCOHOL TO SHARE OR...
  See the "RULES" section below

• DON'T DO THINGS YOU CAN'T AFFORD!
  Gayme Night is supposed to be a fun place to hang with friends and meet new people, please don't go out of your budget to bring something to or do something for Gayme Night.

RULES

• 21+ ONLY
  This is a 21+ party only! No Exceptions.
  
  

• No Discrimination, Violence, Gossip, or Cliques
  Discrimination: This is easy, racism and discrimination aren't welcome here. We are a community of minorities, support one another.
  Violence: Swift, unpleasant, and legal action will be taken against those who choose violence. There is not a single god-damn reason for violence in our house.
  Gossip/Cliques: Be supportive and welcoming to everyone, treat no one like an outcast.
  
  

• Bring Something To Share If You Can Afford To
  Prioritize your financial well-being, but if you can afford to being something to share, please do!
  Alternatively you can donate to the Gayme Night fund. Message the host, that me ->Todd(he/him) for details. 
  If you cannot bring something, please limit yourself to 2 drinks.
  
  

• Drink Responsibly, Know Your Limits, Have a Way Home Planned.
  Please don't impose on me or the other guest to take care of you because you've gotten too drunk or high, no one wants to babysit. Please do not impose on others for a ride home unless its an emergency and those don't happen every week. Have a plan to get to Gayme Night and to get home! When I do last call, you must respect that.
  
  

• Keep it Non-Sexual
  I love sex, I want you to have lots of it, just not here. Please no making out, groping, cuddling, fucking, etc.
  Please for the love of god, don't go do things in our bathroom. Gayme Night is STRICTLY nonsexual, it is not a place to pick up on guys, if you violate this rule you will not be invited back.
  
  

• Respect Us & Our Home
  Our home is our safe space before it's anyone else's. Please respect our house, property, and the privacy of those that live here. The upstairs is strictly off-limits.  Please do not monopolize the bathroom for long periods. If you are having a panic attack/anxiety and need a space to decompress in, come to me, Todd(he/him), and I will provide one to you, I am here for you. No cigarette/cigar smoking, 420 in the backyard plz, no other drugs allowed.
  
  

• Bring ALL Issues to the Host
  That's me, Todd(he/him), message me on the discord or come to me in person.
  
  

• Discord and/or snapchat is REQUIRED
  Discord and Snapchat is how I manage invites, and discord specifically is how I facilitate our community, etc. Trying to unite a community accross multiple platforms is a nightmare so I am only using Discord and Snapchat. . It's free, use it. I will NOT make an exception for you and send you invites on facebook or IG or literally anything else. Both Discord and Snapchat are free. 

Interested in joining? This is a private event and is invite only and is only for LGBTQIA+ and allies, if you have questions, reach out to me at gaymeNightInfo@gmail.com